This can be the most difficult process for parents. Don’t be alarmed, remember, you have our counselors available 24/7 for emotional support. Simply call us Toll Free at 1-866-728-7833. We can help to answer questions, or even speak with your child on the phone if necessary. We can help to de-escalate your child’s reaction to the situation. YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
What to do when your child’s test result is POSITIVE
First and foremost, avoid over-reacting to the Positive test result. Take a deep breath and remain calm. Leave the room momentarily if it will help you to calm down. Be honest and open with your child as to how you feel (Mad, Sad, Afraid, Hurt). Don’t argue, complain, become hysterical or make threats of consequences towards your child; be quiet (for a moment). Then tell your child that “it wouldn’t be productive to talk about the results right now, but let’s thinks about it, and then get together in an hour or so.” Each of you should leave the room, but not the house. Agree to come back together within an hour to discuss the results and the next step. Your child will have more respect for you if you hold off your discussion, and it will avoid a shameful confrontation. During your break, call our counselors Toll Free at 1-866-728-7833 and tell them you just tested your child and give the counselor the results. The counselor will discuss your feelings and the next logical step with your child.
Talking with our professional counselor will give you confidence and will guide you towards the best solutions. Follow the advice of our counselor. We have a nationwide network of services and referrals. We will make the appropriate recommendations for you and your child. |
